Friday, August 24, 2018

My 6 Year Old Son (JUMMA) --3

   

       How do I explain about friday Jummah to my 6 year old Son 


    Mum!!!!! Do I have to go  masjid for jummah prayer??    My little son questioned for the third time with a confused expression...

  ( Their I go again to the explanation mode,lol.)

I said : yes dear.. you need to go  but I am not forcing you. 
But friday is a special day for us as Muslims.
 It's like an Eid day for us. 

All around the world Muslims gathered to Masjids on this day pray to Allah, On a certain time of the day.

We are like brothers and sisters . 
We believe in Allah and we follow our prophet muhammed (Saw).
We follow the same religion .
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    Hope he understood what I taught him..

 With a bright smile he went to the masjid without any complains Alhamdulillah .


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 I know still he is a small kid . Yet , the teachings what we give in their young age stays longer in their little minds . So we need to nourish them with good thoughts ,practises, reciting the quran , memorising the quran etc...
 We need to bring Islam in their day to day life to make them better Musli    

Tuesday, August 21, 2018

My 6 Year Old Son - 2

                  MY 6 YEAR OLD SON




MOM!!!  How is your life???
My little son asked today out of blue while he was riding his bicycle...

 ( For the first time I realised that my son is growing he isn't a small boy who hide himself behind mama or papa when he see a stranger )

I was like have to shout out its a roller coster but kept quiet
Why did you ask dear ?????
     I just want  to know  How did you born??where did you born??
  where everyone took you from the hospital ??
and lots and lots of question he asked.

 THE FACT I LEARNED FROM HIM IS THAT
A SIX YEAR OLD MEANS IS NOT A SMALL TODDLER ...

 TO HIDE THE THINGS BEHIND THE BUSH
WE NEED TO TALK TO THEM
 THE REALITY OF LIFE
THE SITUATIONS WHAT THEY WILL  FACE WHEN THEY GROW UP AND AROUND THEIR SURROUNDINGS
THEY HAVE STRATED TO EXPOLE
THEY HAVE BEGAN TO FIND REASONS FOR EVERYTHING
SO THEY HAVE ALWAYS A QUESTION TO ASK..

SO AS PARENTS WE SHOULD BE AWARE ABOUT THEIR THINKINGS
HOW THEY EXPRESS THEIR IDEAS AND VIEWS      WE SHOULDN'T IGNORE WHEN THEY COMES TO YOU WITH A QUESTION
IF WE ARE NOT PREPARED TO FACE THEM
IF WE ARE NOT WILLING TO RESPOND TO THEIR QUESTIONS....
SOME ONE WILL
THE SOCIETY WILL DO THE JOB
 THE PEOPLE IN THE SOCIETY WILL TAKE IT TO  THEIR HANDS
SOMETIMES IT MIGHT BE GOOD BUT MOST OF THE TIME IT TURNED TO BE WITH BAD INFLUENCE


IF OUR CHILDREN STUCK WITH THE WRONG PERSON
IF HE COMES TO SLOVE THE CHILDS PUZZLE
THINK WHAT WILL BE THE CIRCUMSTANCES
WILL THAT BE A  good beginning for a innocent child

Physcholgist say that A CHILD'S MIND IS LIKE A WHITE PAPER WITHOUT ANY MARKS
WE SHOULD (PARENTS) FILL UP THE PAPER BEFORE THE SOCIETY DOES THAT JOB TO YOUR CHILDS MIND

I THINK ITS THE MAJOR MILESTONE IN THEIR GROWTH
WE HAVE TO GROW  WITH THEM
WE SHOULD EDUCATE OUR SELVES
TO GUIDE OUR CHILDREN
TO SHOW THE RIGHTIOUS PATH
TO TEACH THEM TO BE IN THEIR OWN
NOT TO BE DEPEND IN ANOTHER PERSON
TO MAKE THEIR OWN DECISIONS
TO BE INDEPENDENT
TO  BE STRONG WHEN THE TIDES OF LIFE BECOMES HARD TO FACE.....




Monday, August 20, 2018

DAWN


                     Dawn  


The calmness of the dawn makes me to relax
The prayer I make in the fajr gives me peace ...
After the deep slumber
waking up early before even the sun rise
simply to submit  ourselves in front of our God ..
what a wonderful way to start a day.

Believing in Allah makes our souls being the most satisfied human being among the people...
The greatest  gift Allah has given ,,
The Righteous path he has chosen for us
How grateful we have to be towards our creator..

How many  people in this world has chosen the wrong path
How many people have gone astray by worshipping idols
How many of them changed them selves to become Atheist
how many people striving hard in seeking the truth

WE HAVE TO BE THE MOST GRATEFUL PEOPLE
FOR WHAT WE HAVE GIVEN
BECAUSE OUR CHOICE HAS BEEN DECIDED BY ALLAH
TO BE BORN AS A MUSLIM IS A GIFT FROM ALLAH
LET NOT OUR MINDS  AND HEARTS GO ASTRAY
NEGLIGENT IN OUR PRAYER
IS THE DOWN FALL OF OUR LIFE......

MAY ALLAH MAKES US AMONG THE PIOUS PEOPLE
WHO PLEAD FOR HIS MERCY WHILE THE WORLD IS COVERED IN DARKNESS
WHO RAISE THEIR HANDS IN SUPPLICATION, WHILE THEIR EYES SHED TEARS
MAKE US AMONG THE PEOPLE ,,WHO STAND UP FOR PRAYER (SALAH) EVERY ,TIME WHEN THEY HEAR THE CALL FOR PRAYER (AZAAN)

LET OUR DEEDS
LET OUR ACTIONS PLEASE ALLAH.






Tuesday, August 14, 2018

My 6 year old son --1

      The other day my 6 year old son came to me with a sad face , I saw something bothered him a lot . Yet I didn't jump up to a conclusion ,I just want to spill what he felt.

     He started sobbing and weeping ,,tears started flowing  . Ran to me and hugged me tightly .
Then I asked what happened ? He was stared at me for sometimes , may be analyzing what my reaction will be ,,but mum is always mum😁 I kept a neutral face ... I cannot show my emotions though I desperately want to know what's bothering him.
 He said ""I don't want to go to Quran madrasa(  a place to learn quran ) . I was bit shocked coz that was his favourite place but all of a sudden why this hatred . Soo I said okay you can stay today but promise me you will continue on monday insha allah .

   I just left him to be carefree the whole day when the bed time arrived I started a conversation with him . From A ) Any problem with the vehicle what you travel , is uncle kind towards you (driver), what about the children who goes with you did they trouble you . His response is no . Soo slowly I started what happened in the school so question B)How s your teacher ?? Did she shout at you ? Did she gave any punishment?? But he said no she is very goood . Then comes the friends in the class when put the question C) did your friends hurt you he started crying again so I got the point . I have to handle it carefully as he was bullied in his classroom . An issue which should be concerned as it's regarding my son's self confidence. I have to bring him out of dark hole.. A wound which shouldn't be kept unattended.
      Little by little I  explained in his own tone that theirs nothing to be scared of other children They are your age ..when you become big you will have to face a lot of people so be strong . If someone tries to hurt you simply avoid them, if they keep on troubling just complain to your teacher . Simply just because of a small fight why you want to give up your learning . Just concentrate in your studies that will make you shine among your friends . Be strong and I recalled old stories of my past .. he enjoyed listening to everything as he is a good listener and he slowly drift to a deep sleep.
 And Alhamdulilllah  the words I spoke made the magic in him . From that day on wards he never complain and he started enjoying the days learning the quran Alhamdulillah .

 THE IMPORTANT FACT IS WHEN YOU HANDLE A CHILD YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT THEY ARE NOT GROWN UPS ,, STILL THEY ARE VULNERABLE ..STILL THEY ARE NEW TO THEIR SURROUNDINGS.

SO WE NEED PATIENTS TO TACKLE AND APPROACH THEM IN A GENTLE MANNER TO SOLVE THEIR PROBLEMS. IN OUR VIEW IT'S JUST A SIMPLE  MATTER,THAT CAN BE HANDLED BUT FOR THEM THEY FEEL THEIR LIFE REVOLVING AROUND THEIR PROBLEMS.

    1 ST BE A GOOD LISTENER  FOR YOUR CHILD
TAKE THEIR MATTERS BIT SERIOUSLY ...
YOU WILL FIND YOUR CHILD WILL GROWN UP TO FINE PERSON WITH BEST PERSONALITIES INSHA ALLAH.

THE OLD MAN

                                                                                                                       THE OLD MAN  ...