Marriage is beautiful....

            MARRIAGE IS BEAUTIFUL

      Marriage is beautiful......
      Make it successful........

•      In marriage ,the couples should have a strong communication . It is the roots of a long lasting marriage.   

           #  It should be built up in mutual            understanding 
#forgive the mistakes & forget ...

• The husbands, who considered them as high """I  appreciate their eagerness to become the leader of the family, yet make sure not to break your dear wife's heart in this process"""".         

    Once you raise your hand & your voice her life comes to a hold. Remember not all the women are made out of steal to fight back for her rights. They are vulnerable ..

## Be with them 

##be a part of them.

## Every creation of God is unique . Learn to read their minds. 

##See what their likes and dislikes.

## Look out for what their talent is, encourage them.

• Learn the art of listening . Listen to their ideas ,views ,opinions , Appreciate them. Do not suppress their attitudes simply because you do not like it.                                                                                                                                                        !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You can't try to change another persons life to satisfy your life.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

• Remember each of you have come from different background in the society,with a different family structure and customs. So you can't come to decision in a single action of your spouse.                                                                         .!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!You need time to workout in marriage.     !!!!!!!!!!!!!!                                                                                                                           
• Always seek refuge in Allah ,when ever shaitan course problems around the corner between the spouses.                                                                                                                                                                
• If you are in a desperate situation in your marriage life.. remember this too will pass away.Never give up your hopes easily,let the struggles make you strong.                                                                                                                                
• This advice is for the dear wife's who most willing to spend their husbands money,think twice ... Do not be a burden for your husbands .  Spending their money unnecessarily                                                   """"we know that it's your husbands responsibility to spend over you but never ever compare him to your Dad or siblings.-  """""""""""                                                                                                                                      ------your man some times has his own responsibilities towards his parents and towards his siblings.   He has some commitments too.Do not stress them in these matter.--------------                                                                           

'''''''''IT IS A MAJOR PROBLEM WHICH LEADS TO BROKEN MARRIAGES'''''''''''''''

     #######DEAR SISTER AND BROTHER IN ISLAM , REMEMBER LIFE IS FULL OF TESTS ,,EACH INDIVIDUAL HAVE THEIR OWN WORRIES.......UNFULFILLED DREAMS. IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT THE PROBLEM IS 

    .---ALWAYS PUT YOUR TRUST IN ALLAH 

------He will never let you down----------

           

Hope for life

    When the tides of waves (problems in life)
reached my footsteps 
       I gasped for air..
My breathe got stuck in my lungs
     I forgot to breathe
as I forgot how to swim through life..

Time and patients are the best teachers  
   I ever approached for
they taught me 
    What my battle is for..
The survival to live is the hardest battle my life taught me ..

I am not a warrior in the field of life and hardship..
but,,,,the Fate turned me to a hard rock...
No more you wouldn't  be able to see the innocent women 
with in me ..
It was buried deep down in my heart
never to appear in surface..

my life taught me, mould me , carved me to be the person you see
     TO BEAR THE LONELINESS 
EVERY TIME MY LOVED ONCE LEAVE ME..
   TO BEAR THE PAIN WHEN I AM NOT THE CHOSEN ONE TO BE MARRIED..
 WHEN EVERY SINGLE MARRIAGE PROPOSAL GET REJECTED 
 BECAUSE SIMPLY I AM NOT THE MODERN GIRL WHAT THEY LOOK FOR...

TO BEAR THE HARSH WORDS OF THE SOCIETY 
   WHEN I AM UNABLE TO PRODUCE A CHILD FOR THEM
 OR 
I AM NOT CAPABLE ENOUGH TO GIVE BIRTH TO A BABY BOY..

   I learned the lesson to survive in the society
        As a girl
               As a WIFE
                      As a MUM 
    The battle may intense
yet I never put my armour down 
    Its the struggle for my survival
             THE SURVIVAL TO LEAD A GOOD LIFE 

         

MY DEAR CHILD.......

                My Dear Child........
                        
                             You gave me pride when I carried you in my womb. 
           My dreams for you were beyond boundaries....
The expectations I draw for you in my heart 
wordless to express. You came to this world by giving me another name " MUM".
          I never felt the bond between a child and it's MUM before you were given to my hand.
     I cuddled you ... I enjoyed all the little things you did .....
 I want to protect you 
 I  want leave some lines for you to follow 

     """"I want you to spend time with your parents and specially with your grand parents,Cos what they speak to you is their life lesson.. please do not ignore them.."""
     .""'I want you to be a nature loving kid...
So you will find the beauty in each and every creation of God...
    """Spend time with your Family
        Make your siblings your best friends,
  Time will teach you how hard you try to hold them .... but they will be faraway from you,,Only the pictures will remain with you to recall the sweet memories....
   """Always believe in your self 
      It's the door step for your success..

      """"IN THE ROAD OF YOUR LIFE 
STOP YOURSELF 
LOOK BACK HOW FAR YOU HAVE COME...
HOW FAR YOU HAVE REACHED FOR YOUR GOAL...
 LET THE FOOT PRINTS STAY BIT LONGER
    SO OTHERS CAN FOLLOW YOUR FOOTSTEPS....

...................ALWAYS SPEAK TO ALLAH ...
LOOK TOWARDS THE SKY....RAISE YOUR HANDS HIGH
HE IS THEIR LOOKING AT YOU 
THE CREATOR
THE MASTER OF THIS UNIVERSE 
------HE WILL NEVER LET YOU DOWN-------
    
        

THE LAND I FALL IN LOVE -- MADINA

  THE LAND I FALL IN LOVE -- MADINA


              

                      Once in my life I was gifted and blessed to live in a land where the beauty was hidden under the scorching sun .
  In the middle of the brown sand only you will be welcomed by the thin thorny cactuses and tall date trees.
 Time to time you will see white sheets of moving creatures when you look closer its amazing to see the sheeps were grazing in the barren land . Its a wonder to see the animals survive in those dark brown heated sand.
      I saw the beauty in mesmerizing tall mountains . My heart skips a beat when I saw the mountains covered with different shades,in different layers of smooth sand..

             I feel like run towards it.. to feel the beauty to the core of my thirsty heart .
 I want to get lost in those sandy mountains..
To refresh my soul......

                                 My legs never comes to a halt, never I get tired when I roam through the streets of my beloved prophet. I feel zenith when I thought that once rasoolullah and his dear companions footsteps touch the soil which I witness through my own eyes.

       The beauty ,the tranquility I felt in my mind is a pure bliss. My soul becomes ease with the peaceful serenity which I knew I never get it in this whole wide world.

    You may dive into the sea,you may climb up the cliff of a tall mountain ... you may witness the beauty of the sunset when it hide its rays far away behind the mountain ranges ... you may see the gushing pure white milky waterfalls falling with their charming rhythm... all these moments are breathe taking ,a pleasant memory for a certain period time , but when you stepped into the city of madi7na you will feel unknown emotions  ...... 

you will feel the pleasure of a long lost child running towards his mother.......

A missing piece of puzzle of your life......

 

The wonderful days I spend in Masjid al Haram was mesmerizing.  Far away from a distance you will see the view of jennathul bakki where the prophets beloved companions and the people who created the best nation were buried.. you will see the green dome where my beloved prophet Muhamed (Saw) and his companions next to each other were buried. Then the tall countless gates welcome you to the prophets masjid .

   
     
When the sun was rising I witness the beauty while sitting in the floors of haram. I used to ponder the words of Allah (Quran) while tears in my eyes.....
Ya Allah how many times do I have to thank you to give this great opportunity ... where thousands of people longing to come to this place through out their entire life.
    In the morning hours its splendid to be inside the masjid. The sun rays beams down through the window shades of the masjid. 
    Their were Quran circles around every corner. They might be different in colour ..
their language Might differ from each other yet they have sat in one pious mission...
The wisdom of learning the language of prophet.... to give a voice to the mesmerizing Quran... to carry Allah 's words in their hearts .. and ready to carry it to the next generation.
  How inspirational ,,,how wonderful their attitudes were.........

   The people who visit that place have different dress codes not like the way  we see in Makka during tawaf.
Every time this issue kept me haunting and took sometime till the reality dawn to me...
      I forgot to realize that their are people among us who take little steps towards the righteous path. No one is perfect in practising the religion , everyone strive struggle hard to get succeed in their own pace.
we are not in the religion which can be forced at others .It takes time to carve the extract to embrace fully with the pure intention towards islam. 
As they say we cannot judge a book by its cover similarly we cannot come to a conclusion by the peoples attire or by their acts of behaviour .
These are the simple but amazing lesson I learned the days in haram taught me .

  The beauty that our beloved rasoolullah taught our nation which made us a unique community. He took the mission of building up individual people.....
      Quran has the guidance and the life of prophet muhamed (saw) being the living example made madina to become the most successful community.The best nation ever lived  where their glory echoed far east and the west .


     THE LAND OF SUCCESS
     THE LAND OF OUR BELOVED PROPHET 
HOW DO I REFRAIN FROM FALLING IN LOVE ..............................
 MADINA MY BELOVED CITY OF MY HEART

She

               
               SHE......
Every time I think about life
       ready to write down my thoughts I end up with melancholy..
Why can't I ever start to write with a happy life
             a happy ending
A happy loving story of a wonderful newly married couple..
""Happily lived ever after""

It's a blindness
It's dumb
If I use those words to express a successful story..

When I turn around
the world has changed a lot
Yet ,
when I see a girl around me her life never change a single bit
Why she is the one who has to suffer..
why she is the one who has to give up her thoughts..
why she is the one who has to suppress her own feelings...
Why she is the one who has to be patient ,keep her mouth shut...

How can she survive
How many days she has to stuck inside the four walls weeping for her life...
Doesn't she deserve a life in her own accord..
Doesn't she has the freedom to stand up in her own feet....
Doesn't she is the one who has to face all the hardship..

What's the fault she has done to her in laws
Why She She She ............

Remember she has a soul
Yet it's dead long time back..

Once she had some thoughts imaginations about her life ..
A wonderful future 
A new Chapter about her life
She dreamed to be loved 
A caring shoulder
Some cheerful words..

Is it too much for a girl to ask
isn't she should be respected

please don't try to break her wings before even it started to  grow fully..

She doesn't want to be the eagle to rule the sky
she just want to be the sparrow .......
to fly around the garden 
the garden of your life

Fate

          FATE

  I cried on that day.. to escape from the bitter reality.
  My sobs never ending as it was a pouring rain drops ..
 My tears my cries became louder till I heard  someone whispered behind me
 """You are not suppose to cry in front of your "MUM"
It stuck me hard  to the core of my heart 
Now the only soul left for me is my MUM
  The Dad I was blessed to have no more with me 
The pain is so hard 
A lifeless body wrapped in a white shroud being kept in front of me 
My mind weeps to give my Dad my last hug 
My heart bleeds to hear his kind words 
My Mum lost her dear companion 

 I wiped my tears , I have to bear it 
 I have to hide my sorrows ,pains deep down in my heart...
Let my Mum know I am the strongest girl whom she can rely on....
yet deep down I am dying of the emptiness 
The deep scar 
The hole which cannot be covered in days....
I am falling day by day yet I learn to stand up every time I fall to fight with my awaiting destiny................